Most people are waiting for their partner to be the person they want them to be and they think the only way the marriage will be good is if their partner changes. You have the opportunity to change this and have a great relationship with your partner by first evaluating how you perceive your partner.
How do you perceive your partner? Do you perceive your partner in his/her best? As at their maximum potential? Probably not. Many couples in crisis perceive their partners as what they don’t want or don’t like. They focus on the negative. If you can imagine your partner as your ally and not as your enemy you will be amazed at how your positive perception of your partner as your ally will strengthen your relationship with them.
If you and your partner would benefit from marriage therapy, please visit my website: www.toddcreager.com or call to schedule an appointment: (714) 848-2288 or email me directly at todd@toddcreager.com. My office is located in Hunting Beach, CA.