What My Latest Video Reveals About Healing from Multiple Infidelities (And Why You Need to Watch It)

Look, I’m going to be straight with you. When someone cheats on you once, it’s devastating. But when they do it multiple times? That’s a whole different level of pain that cuts so deep, it makes you question everything about yourself.

I’ve been working with couples for decades now – literally thousands of them – and I can tell you that dealing with serial infidelity puts you in a special category of hurt. The questions that keep you up at night become more desperate: “What’s wrong with me?” “Why do they keep doing this?” “Was any of it real?”

Here’s the thing – I just released a video specifically about multiple infidelities, and I’m focusing on you, the betrayed partner, because honestly? That’s where my heart breaks the most when I see this pattern.

Why This Video Hits Different

When you’re dealing with someone who’s cheated multiple times, generic relationship advice just doesn’t cut it anymore. You need someone who gets the unique psychological torture of serial betrayal. In this video, I’m pulling back the curtain on what’s really happening:

First, let’s talk about why they keep cheating.

And here’s something I want you to hear loud and clear: In all my years of practice, not once – and I mean not once – have I seen someone cheat because of their partner.

Even serial cheaters. It’s never about you. I use what’s called a “parts-based approach” to explain what’s actually driving this behavior, and trust me, it has everything to do with their internal world and nothing to do with your worth.

Second, I’m going to help you stop torturing yourself.

You know that voice in your head that keeps asking “What’s wrong with me?” We’re going to quiet that voice.

I’ll show you how to stop taking their behavior personally and understand that their choices are about their unresolved stuff, not about you being “not enough.”

Third, that question that’s eating you alive:

“Was any part of our relationship real?” I get it. When someone betrays you repeatedly, it feels like your entire history together was a lie.

I’m going to give you an honest, clear answer based on what I’ve seen in my practice. Spoiler alert: we’re all made up of different parts – some that love genuinely, and others that might act out because of old wounds.

And here’s the big one:

I’m giving you permission to still love them. Yeah, you heard me right.

You’re probably feeling guilty about still having love for someone who’s hurt you this badly. That’s completely normal. There’s a part of you that wants to hate them, wants to make them pay.

But there’s also a part that’s invested, that remembers the good times, that still loves. Both parts are valid.

The Real Talk About Multiple Infidelities

Here’s what I’ve learned from working with people in your situation: multiple infidelities create a special kind of trauma.

It’s not just about the betrayal – it’s about the pattern. It makes you feel like you’re going crazy, like you can’t trust your own judgment anymore.

Let me share something from my practice.

I worked with a woman whose partner cheated multiple times. Come to find out, she grew up in a family where she was basically invisible – the black sheep who never got attention.

That part of her that was starving for attention? It acted out through infidelity. Had absolutely nothing to do with her husband, even though he was the one left picking up the pieces.

Now, I’m not making excuses for multiple cheating

Cheating is devastating, period. But understanding where it comes from? That’s how you stop destroying yourself in the process of trying to heal.

What You’ll Walk Away With

After watching this video, you’re going to have a completely different framework for understanding what happened to you.

You’ll see that:

→ Their cheating comes from their unresolved childhood stuff, not from anything lacking in you

→ It’s possible to separate their choices from your self-worth

→ You can still love someone and choose what’s best for your healing

→ There is hope, whether you’re trying to rebuild or getting ready to move on

The most important thing I want you to understand is this: it is not about you.

I don’t care how many times they cheated, how many different people, how many lies they told. None of that reflects your value as a person.

Where We Go From Here

This video is just the start. I’m planning a whole series on multiple infidelities because I know how much you need this support.

Next up, I’ll be talking about what a reformed serial cheater actually looks like and how you can tell if someone is truly changing or just getting better at hiding things.

You don’t have to figure this out alone. The insights I’m sharing have helped countless people stop blaming themselves and start rebuilding their lives.

Whether you’re staying or going, you deserve to understand what really happened so you can heal properly.

Remember, I’m Todd Creager, and I’m here making the world safe for love – including making it safe for you to love yourself through this incredibly difficult time.

Watch the video below. Your healing starts with understanding multiple infidelities, and understanding starts right here.