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Creating a Safe Place To Heal From Trauma

April 10, 2025 by Todd Creager Leave a Comment

Are you struggling to heal from trauma but don’t know where to begin?

Learning how to heal from trauma starts with creating a safe space – both internally and externally.

As someone who has helped thousands of people work through their trauma, I want to share some essential insights about establishing the safety needed for true healing to occur.

In this detailed video, I guide you through:

–Understanding what makes a space truly safe for trauma healing – physically, emotionally, and psychologically

–Learning practical breathing and grounding techniques to create internal safety-Discovering how to set healthy boundaries and create an external environment conducive to healing

–Recognizing the importance of self-compassion in the healing journey

–Exploring how trauma affects your nervous system and learning tools to regulate it

One of the most important things to understand about trauma healing is that you cannot begin to process and heal while still in an unsafe situation.

Whether it’s an abusive relationship or ongoing betrayal, you must first establish basic safety before deeper healing work can begin.

I’ll teach you specific techniques like the “two-to-one” breathing ratio and visualization exercises that help create a sense of safety in your body.

You’ll learn how to tune into your needs and set boundaries that protect your healing process.

Most importantly, I share why self-compassion is absolutely essential as you heal from trauma.

The journey isn’t linear – there will be ups and downs. Having patience and kindness toward yourself makes all the difference.

The video includes a powerful grounding exercise where I guide you through connecting with your body’s innate capacity for feeling safe and supported.

Even if you’ve never felt truly safe before, these practical tools can help you begin creating that experience for yourself.

Remember, needing support to heal from trauma isn’t weakness – it’s wisdom.

While this video provides valuable tools for your healing journey, working with a trauma-informed therapist can provide additional support when you’re ready.

Ready to learn how to create the safety you need to heal from trauma?

Watch the full video below. Your healing journey matters, and it starts with giving yourself permission to feel safe.

Revitalize Your Life: Instant Access to Your Trauma Healing Blueprint

Access the Essential Steps You Need to Move Beyond Trauma and Reclaim Joy in Your Life

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