For Men Only

Be masculine this weekend. What does that mean? My definition of masculinity is it is that part of you that can make things happen, affect others positively and penetrate her world in loving, helpful ways. Your masculinity evokes your partner’s femininity. When you are masculine, she opens up and receive and allow you to penetrate her world. She receives your loving gestures and words and opens her heart and body in trust and receptivity. So what are some masculine things you can do?

Be a great listener. Listen to her complaints about you; that’s right- listen to her complaints and feelings and stay interested; do not get defensive. As difficult as that is for most of us men, it is the most masculine thing you can do because it inspires her trust and openness.

Here are a couple of suggestions to get you started:

Plan a date.

Initiate lovemaking.

Ask her how you can help take one task off her plate. (Very masculine!)

Touch her with the intention to make her feel more loved than ever.

Here’s to getting the love you want!