Have you ever wondered why love isn’t enough to fix repeating arguments in your relationship?

As a relationship therapist, I’ve heard countless couples say “We love each other so much, but we keep having the same fights over and over.” Today, I want to help you understand why this happens and what you can do about it.

Here’s why you’ll want to watch this eye-opening video:

Understanding Your Survival Mode

I explain why we get stuck in repeating arguments even when we deeply love our partner.

It’s not because you don’t care enough – it’s because your brain is stuck in survival mode, triggering old wounds and protective patterns that keep you arguing about the same things.

Discovering Your Blind Spots 

Learn why love isn’t enough to fix repeating arguments until you understand your emotional blind spots.

I share real examples of how childhood experiences shape our reactions and why we keep getting triggered by our partner in ways we don’t even realize.

Solutions That Help End Those Repeating Arguments

I offer clear, actionable advice on how to break free from repeating arguments.

You’ll learn specific techniques to slow down, become more aware, and respond differently when conflicts arise.

These tools have helped countless couples move from repeating arguments to deeper connection.

The Shadow Side of Love

We dive deep into understanding the “shadow side” – those unconscious parts of ourselves that sabotage our relationships even when we’re trying our best.

Once you understand why love alone isn’t enough, you can start working with these hidden patterns and repeating arguments over and over instead of being controlled by them.

Throughout this video, I share personal examples and real couple scenarios that will help you see your own relationship dynamics more clearly.

You’ll learn why repeating arguments aren’t just about the surface issues, but about deeper survival patterns that need your attention and understanding.

My 90-minute program “From Bickering and Escalation to Connecting and Loving” takes these insights even further.

But this video gives you the essential foundation for understanding why love isn’t enough to fix repeating arguments and what you can do to create real change.

Ready to understand what’s really driving those repeating arguments and learn how to break free from them?

Watch the video below.

Your relationship deserves more than just love – it deserves understanding, awareness, and the practical tools to grow stronger together.