Passionate Sex and Long-Term Relationships Truly Go Together
Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT, a marriage and sex therapist has come out with a book, “The Long, Hot Marriage, ” a book that can convince you that long term relationships and passionate sex actually do go together. The book teaches you how to awaken the sleeping marriage, not only in the bedroom but outside of it as well. Todd Creager says, “The key is developing interpersonal creativity- the ability to actively think and behave in ways that uplift the energy of the couple.” Many people are going through financial challenges and there is a feeling of “crisis” in our country. During times like these, people can get into a “survival” mode and forget that we need to tend to the relationships in our life, especially the one with our intimate partner.
Powerful new guide for couples.
The typical way of thinking about marriage is that it is a surefire way to end all passion and romance. Todd Creager makes the argument that this thinking is based on what we have observed in our parents and other ancestors, people who have not developed the interpersonal creativity he talks about in his book. Instead of blindly believing that marriage and passion are not compatible, he teaches couples how to ‘blaze their own new path’ that creates a very different interpersonal environment that allows for more emotional and physical connection between them.
Endorsed by notable authors and marriage and sex experts
John Gray, Author of “Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus” wrote: “Todd Creager does a wonderful job at showing you how to develop the emotional muscle and skills to overcome the challenges and obstacles to having an alive, passionate relationship. He does it in a straightforward style that challenges you to be more interpersonally creative.”
Harville Hendrix frequent Oprah Winfrey guest and author of “Getting the Love You Want” wrote: “This wonderful book was written by a wise, deep and experienced therapist with heart who can write clear, succinct and accessible paragraphs that convey a realistic message. His message: you are responsible for the impact you make on your partner. The quality and duration of your relationship including sexuality is determined by the way you perceive and relate to your partner. In addition to clear concepts, he offers lucid examples from his own practice as well as clear guidance that any couple can understand. I heartily recommend this book to all couples.”