Find your alter ego in the bedroom

This Weekend Let Loose and Be Playful in the Bedroom

 

Are you very serious by day or maybe you have a very serious job? This weekend you may want to express the opposite of that in the bedroom.  Let loose and be playful.

Or maybe you take orders all day from a boss or customers.  You may want to be a leader in the bedroom this weekend.  Or maybe you lead and manage all day and want to “surrender” in the bedroom this weekend.

In most areas of life, we need to be politically correct, do our roles and make life work.  Behind closed doors, we can explore and express other aspects of who we are.  We don’t always have to be so politically correct in the bedroom.

  I am a believer that almost anything goes in the bedroom as long as it follows two main rules:

  1. It is consensual.
  2. It doesn’t only feel good when you are doing whatever sexual activity you are doing but that the next day, week and month, it still feels good if you reflect on what you did.

 

The sexual arena is a place to explore and often act outside the lines that have been drawn for you by yourself

and others in other areas of your life.

 

Why was “50 Shades of Gray” such a sensation?  Partly because, many people live their lives including their sex lives so conventionally and they yearn to stretch their own boundaries.  I am not saying that you have to be like Christian Gray or that you even have to get involved with power games (even though that can add spice to ones sex life if done respectfully and playfully).

Simply stated, give yourself permission to do something or even be someone different.  Discuss this with your partner.  Take the time to experience something new and different in your intimate lives.

 

Here’s to getting the love you want!

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