Your Relationship Toolkit

By | Communication, Holidays, Intimacy, Love Languages, Marital Advice, Marriage Advice, Relationships, Romance, Sexy, Successful Marriages, The 5 Love Languages, The Five Love Languages | No Comments

During this month of November, I will be writing about three things for your Relationship Toolkit.  These tools are 3 of the most effective ways to lift the energy of yourself, your partner and your relationship.  Next week I will be talking about your Love Language.  Credit goes to Gary Chapman who wrote the book, “The Five Love Languages.”  I have done workshops using his ideas and they were total successes.  As you learn and speak the love language of…

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More on the Five Love Languages

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In his book, The Five Love Languages, Dr. Gary Chapman lists 5 main love languages. They are: 1) Words of Affirmation 2) Quality Time 3) Gifts 4) Acts of Service 5) Touch In my 30 year history of seeing couples in my practice, I can see how different partners feel loved by one of these 5 love languages and seldom do partners have the same language. How do you know what love language you speak and how you need to…

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The Five Love Languages

By | Creating More Passion in Marriage, Love Languages, Marriage Advice, Relationships, Successful Marriages, The 5 Love Languages, Todd's Thursday thought for relationship bliss | No Comments

As a marriage and sex therapist for over 30 years, I get excited when I discover hope for couples who have lost their way.    As I have written in my book. The Long Hot Marriage, I am more optimistic than ever about couples creating aliveness and passion in their long term relationships.  Now I have another reason to be optimistic.  Many of my clients kept telling me about Dr. Gary Chapman’s book, “The Five Love Languages,” and so finally…

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