When One Spouse Feels Like the Parent

When One Spouse Feels Like the Parent and the Other Feels Like the Child

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How It Affects Sexual Desire In just about every couple I help, there is a father/daughter or mother/child pattern that has manifested.  In other words, much of the time, one of the spouses feels more like a parent; a person who has to manage, restrict or compensate for the other person.  I hear these people say statements such as- “I feel like I have another child” “I think of everyone and he (or she) only thinks of him (or herself.”…

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Dealing with Erection Difficulties in Men

Dealing with Erection Difficulties in Men

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Not unlike the problem of low sexual desire that I discussed in my previous blog, erection problems can be caused by physical, emotional and relationship reasons as well as a combination of these factors. I could tell you the main reasons men have erection issues who come to see me for help. Medical issues such as diabetes or certain medication side effects Low testosterone Performance anxiety This list is in increasing order of frequency of what I see in my…

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How to Spice Up Your Relationship; Add Some Naughty to Your Nice

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Even if you have the sweetest, most tender relationship, it is possible that one or both partners feel there is something “missing”. They might not be able to name it exactly, but something feels not entirely satisfying. Having seen many couples in this situation, I’ve discovered the most common issue. More often than not, what’s “missing”, is the spice of being naughty. We are complex, sexual beings that enjoy a full spectrum of sensations and emotions. To have only sweetness…

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