Sex in Your 20’s

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The theme in July is Sexuality Through the Years. Today I start with sexuality in your 20’s. The 20’s are rich with opportunities for sexual learning and experiences. These young adults, while enjoying their sexuality, need to make intelligent choices such as the following. Practice birth control and safe sex. It is a time to enjoy the present without sacrificing your future! Make good choices of sexual partners. If you are being promiscuous, you may want to get some therapy…

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Tips for More Romance

By | Committment, Dating, Great Sex, Intimacy, Long Hot Marriage, Love, Love advice, Marriage, Marriage Advice, Relationships, Romance, Todd’s Thursday Thought, Videos | No Comments

Romance is key to keeping the embers burning in a long hot marriage. But, what happens if you aren’t the romantic type? (Hint: EVERYONE can be romantic; it’s not really that hard.) With these tips for more romance, you will learn how easy romance can be. Access that part of you, that makes you and your partner feel the magic all over again. Here’s to getting the love you want!

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A Success Story: She Found Love After Leaving A Toxic Relationship

By | Coping, Counseling, Dating, Healing, Love, Love advice, Relationships, Soulmate, Toxic Relationships | One Comment

Here is a 100% true story of a past client who was able to break free of toxic patterns and discovered who and what she could attract and have in her life. As you read, you will see how through her own increased awareness, courage to be alone and raising her standards that achieving her relationships dream was possible. Her name is changed for reasons of confidentiality. Stephanie came to see me after 8 years of being with another therapist….

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Five Ways for Parents to Remember They are Lovers Too

By | Communication, Creating More Passion in Marriage, Dating, Intimacy, Long Hot Marriage, Love, Love advice, Marriage, Marriage Advice, Relationships, Romance, Sex, Sexy, Successful Marriages | One Comment

Having young or even adolescent children around can put a serious dent in a couple’s intimate life. But it does not have to be that way! With a little thought, planning and attention, parents can be lovers too! Here are 5 ways to bring back that “lover” feeling: 1. Have an army of babysitters ready to assist. Having multiple choices will maximize the probability of actually getting one. Don’t just depend on your mother or mother-in-law. Then go out on…

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Why You Should Stop Searching for Your Soulmate

By | Dating, Intimacy, Long Hot Marriage, Love, Love advice, Marriage, Marriage Advice, Relationships, Soulmate, Successful Marriages | One Comment

To be honest, I like the word “soulmate” and I use it.  However, I may define it differently than a lot of other people. The way a lot of people use this word “soulmate” is- “this is the perfect person for me” or “there is someone out there who will be the one.”  There is no perfect person out there.  The person out there is flawed and you probably will fall out of love (hopefully just temporarily) at times.  Then…

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Dating Advice: How to Be Interested, Not Interesting

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This is a true story from my personal dating experience.  I had broken up with a girl friend after being in a long term relationship and I was about to go on a first date. I’m sure many of you can relate to the fact that I was nervous and I really wanted to make a good impression on her.  Continue reading the story at:  How To Be Interested, Not Interesting  where you’ll find out how the date went,…

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Who is the modern, masculine dating man?

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How to Be the Modern Don Draper Who is the modern, masculine dating man? The old images of masculinity were men picking up their women in a nice car, taking them to a nice restaurant and sharing all their triumphs with their date. In and of itself, none of that is bad. However, things have changed. Just like it is not enough for the married man to mow the lawn on Sundays, it is not enough for the single man…

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