Todd Creager

The Biggest Sexual Myth of All

October 23, 2014 by Leave a comment

There are many sexual myths and I have given many talks about them. However, the biggest sexual myth of all is: “You have to be good at it!”

The idea of being a sexual virtuoso, to perform in such a way that there should be a standing ovation (no pun …

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Secrets of Long Term Love

October 21, 2014 by Leave a comment

Long Term Love and I mean deep love, the kind of love where you feel that you would marry your spouse all over again after 10, 20, 30, 40 or 50 years of marriage does happen.  There are couples that DO experience that kind of relationship.

What is their secret(s)?

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Published in Love, Relationships

5 Reasons to Have Sex More Often

October 16, 2014 by 1 comment

5 Reasons to Have Sex More Often

What is the bottom line about sex when it comes to committed relationships?

We basically don’t have enough of it.  We get too busy, we have other priorities that take precedence and then we just fall into …

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Does Love Make Sex Better?

October 9, 2014 by 1 comment

A Penn State study has revealed that 78% of heterosexual women between 20 and 68 years old believe that love makes sex physically more satisfying.  Only 18% of women interviewed said that love was unnecessary for a fulfilling sexual relationship.

My client couples seem to confirm this.  When there is a …

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Here’s help if you are struggling with Infidelity and don’t know what to do

October 7, 2014 by Leave a comment

Infidelity is prevalent in today’s society and the statistics are staggering.

Did you know that at least 50% of men and women admitted that they have committed infidelity in a relationship?

I want you to know that here’s help if you are struggling with Infidelity and don’t know what to …

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Published in Infidelity, Videos

Should We Tell the Kids About the Affair?

September 23, 2014 by 2 comments

Now THAT is a difficult question.

The immediate answer seems to be “Absolutely not!”

But taking a closer look, the better answer is- “That depends.”  There are a variety of situations that may make it seem unnecessary to tell them.  Take for example the situation where there is a one-night …

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Published in Infidelity, Marriage

Are You Keeping ANY Secrets from Your Partner?

September 18, 2014 by Leave a comment

Secrets are problematic in relationships for these reasons:

1)     You unconsciously begin distancing yourself from your partner when you keep something form him or her.

2)     You have a higher chance of acting out in ways such as cheating, keeping more secrets (slippery slope phenomena) and even being cruel to …

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Financial Infidelity is an Epidemic!

September 11, 2014 by Leave a comment

According to a 2014 Survey from the National Endowment for Financial Education, 1 out of 3 couples have a partner who has lied about their financial situation to their partner.

And 76% of those partners said that financial deception has adversely affected their relationships.  As I wrote in last week’s …

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How to Prevent Affairs From Continuing

September 9, 2014 by Leave a comment

You were a little suspicious before, since he was coming home later than usual and being a little more distant.

But now, you saw the text and you know it’s true.

He is having an affair.  (Or she).  So now what do you do?  You love your husband, you have …

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Published in Infidelity, Marriage

Keeping Secrets is an Interpersonal Crime

September 4, 2014 by Leave a comment

“Keeping secrets such as an affair is an interpersonal crime.

It IS stealing; the secret holder is stealing the right of his or her partner to make decisions based on the absolute truth.  

The only way we CAN make good decisions for ourselves …

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