Todd Creager

Three Warning Signs of Infidelity

November 25, 2014 by Leave a comment

Over the years I have been able to help many couples work through the issue of infidelity successfully. But how do you know if your partner is cheating?

In this video, I cover three warning signs that your partner may be cheating on you.

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Ending a Toxic Relationship: Saying No More!

November 20, 2014 by Leave a comment

We have all grown up inheriting some family role.  One such role is the “giver” or the “caretaker.”  This is the role where you manage other people’s emotions.   Yes, if you are in this role, you have unconsciously inherited the job of putting everyone’s needs ahead of your own.  If …

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3 Ways We Accidentally Screw Up Our Relationships

November 13, 2014 by Leave a comment

Nobody wakes up in the morning and says, “OK- Let’s see how I can sabotage this relationship today.”  We can screw up a good relationship without any effort or conscious thought at all!  Here are 3 ways we blow it while being on automatic pilot:

  • After a while, we …
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Published in Marriage, Relationships

Three Harsh Realities about Love

November 11, 2014 by Leave a comment

Many of us have had naive notions about love, what it is and how it works. 

We fall in love and after a certain amount of time, most of us (and maybe all of us honest ones) fall out of love or at least fall somewhat out of love.  And we …

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Five Signs You are in a Toxic or Draining Relationship

November 6, 2014 by Leave a comment

This post is introducing my series on toxic relationships

Of course intimate relationships can be toxic; however, everything I’m sharing this month can be applied to any personal, social or work relationships.

What do I mean by toxic?

When you are with that person, he or she acts …

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Not feeling the passion in your relationship?

October 30, 2014 by 1 comment

Not interested in sex? You’re probably not alone…

  • Married couples say they have sex an average of 68.5 times a year. That’s slightly more than once a week. — Newsweek
  • Married people have 6.9 more sexual encounters per year than people who have never been married. — Newsweek
  • 15 …
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The Biggest Sexual Myth of All

October 23, 2014 by Leave a comment

There are many sexual myths and I have given many talks about them. However, the biggest sexual myth of all is: “You have to be good at it!”

The idea of being a sexual virtuoso, to perform in such a way that there should be a standing ovation (no pun …

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Secrets of Long Term Love

October 21, 2014 by Leave a comment

Long Term Love and I mean deep love, the kind of love where you feel that you would marry your spouse all over again after 10, 20, 30, 40 or 50 years of marriage does happen.  There are couples that DO experience that kind of relationship.

What is their secret(s)?

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Published in Love, Relationships

5 Reasons to Have Sex More Often

October 16, 2014 by 1 comment

5 Reasons to Have Sex More Often

What is the bottom line about sex when it comes to committed relationships?

We basically don’t have enough of it.  We get too busy, we have other priorities that take precedence and then we just fall into …

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Does Love Make Sex Better?

October 9, 2014 by 1 comment

A Penn State study has revealed that 78% of heterosexual women between 20 and 68 years old believe that love makes sex physically more satisfying.  Only 18% of women interviewed said that love was unnecessary for a fulfilling sexual relationship.

My client couples seem to confirm this.  When there is a …

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