Todd Creager

Relationships that Survived and Thrived After Infidelity

December 17, 2014 by Leave a comment

If you or someone you know has caught a partner cheating, it can be devastating. You are probably wondering if I can ever trust him or her again. What If I told you it is possible for your relationship survive and even thrive after infidelity?

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Surviving the Holidays with a Dysfunctional Family

December 11, 2014 by Leave a comment

Not all families are a pleasure to be around in the holidays.

Here are 3 pointers to help you survive and maybe even thrive around a dysfunctional family during the holidays.

  • Have other people there at the event that nourishes you.

Have someone there you can turn to …

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Published in Family, Holidays

Seven Signs You Were Raised in a Dysfunctional Family

December 9, 2014 by Leave a comment

Here comes one of my Creagerisms- the simple definition of a dysfunctional family is one that discourages you from trusting your true self so you develop a false self.

What does that mean?

It means that you are entitled to be all that you are but unfortunately many people have …

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Published in Toxic Relationships

After a Toxic Relationship: Making Room for Love

December 4, 2014 by Leave a comment

You’ve finally let go of the toxic relationship…

He or she has gotten the clear message that the relationship is over.  You have learned that you deserve better!  Now it is time to play with your unconscious “script” or expectations.  You need to stretch outside your comfort zone and be …

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Published in Toxic Relationships

Three Warning Signs of Infidelity

November 25, 2014 by Leave a comment

Over the years I have been able to help many couples work through the issue of infidelity successfully. But how do you know if your partner is cheating?

In this video, I cover three warning signs that your partner may be cheating on you.

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Ending a Toxic Relationship: Saying No More!

November 20, 2014 by Leave a comment

We have all grown up inheriting some family role.  One such role is the “giver” or the “caretaker.”  This is the role where you manage other people’s emotions.   Yes, if you are in this role, you have unconsciously inherited the job of putting everyone’s needs ahead of your own.  If …

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3 Ways We Accidentally Screw Up Our Relationships

November 13, 2014 by Leave a comment

Nobody wakes up in the morning and says, “OK- Let’s see how I can sabotage this relationship today.”  We can screw up a good relationship without any effort or conscious thought at all!  Here are 3 ways we blow it while being on automatic pilot:

  • After a while, we …
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Published in Marriage, Relationships

Three Harsh Realities about Love

November 11, 2014 by Leave a comment

Many of us have had naive notions about love, what it is and how it works. 

We fall in love and after a certain amount of time, most of us (and maybe all of us honest ones) fall out of love or at least fall somewhat out of love.  And we …

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Published in Love, Relationships

Five Signs You are in a Toxic or Draining Relationship

November 6, 2014 by Leave a comment

This post is introducing my series on toxic relationships

Of course intimate relationships can be toxic; however, everything I’m sharing this month can be applied to any personal, social or work relationships.

What do I mean by toxic?

When you are with that person, he or she acts …

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Not feeling the passion in your relationship?

October 30, 2014 by 1 comment

Not interested in sex? You’re probably not alone…

  • Married couples say they have sex an average of 68.5 times a year. That’s slightly more than once a week. — Newsweek
  • Married people have 6.9 more sexual encounters per year than people who have never been married. — Newsweek
  • 15 …
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