The Biggest Sexual Myth of All

There are many sexual myths and I have given many talks about them. However, the biggest sexual myth of all is: “You have to be good at it!”

The idea of being a sexual virtuoso, to perform in such a way that there should be a standing ovation (no pun intended) takes you totally off the mark of the greatest pleasures of sex.  Feeling the need to be good at it deprives you of the joy of exploring, doing things differently, maybe in ways that you would appear as a beginner; a novice.  It deprives you of the joy of that novelty.  Also, that approach does not allow you to focus on the connection between the two of you.  Instead, you are focused on how well you are or are not doing.

There is a special joy when you are with a partner, making love in whatever way you are choosing to make love and you are free to be spontaneous, knowing full well that no matter what, your partner accepts you and cares about you.

Good sex is not about how well you perform, it is about you the two of you feel about each other during and after sex.  So go enjoy good sex no matter if you are good at it or not!

Here’s to getting the love you want!

 

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